My mom...

The woman...the most loving,caring,intellectual,sweet and beautiful being on this planet!!!the respect and love i have for this "species" is so immense that it can't be measured!!and the credit for all this goes to my "very sweet mom"!!there's never a day when she seizes to amaze me.
she is the most intelligent person in our house,she is a "senior manager" in a bank and she is the homemaker too!!!she is a very sweet n loving mom,a very caring wife and a very responsible daughter-in-law.
but what made me write this blog consists of all these things and another special quality of hers which i have come to know recently..u see,my grandma..she is very old,maybe around 87 or so...actually,i m not very fond of my grandma,in fact i have no love for her in my heart,the reason for this is the torture and pain she has inflicted to my mom for all these yrs..she has never given my mom the love and respect she deserved..n now when she (my grandma) is so ill(she is suffering from some kind of brain shrinkage and she has gone into a very bad mental and physical state) wherein she needs someone to take care of her..guess who takes this job so selflessly,"my mom"!!!she puts food in my grandma's mouth with her own hands,she stays up every night with my grandma(my grandma sleeps the whole day when all of us r awake n busy in our jobs n when its our turn to take some rest ,she will wake up n keep shouting meaningless things everyday) and she also helps her go to the loo n stuff....
one fine day i went to my mom why the hell did she do all this when my grandma had been so bad to her for all these years and she very humbly replied "its her(my grandma's) old age n its my duty to help her,one day i m also gonna grow old"..i was so angry with my mom,i wanted her to avenge the bad things done to her,but instead she let it go n fulfilled her duty!!!if i were in mom's place,i could never have even imagined doing what she was doing..from that day on,the respect i have for my mom in my heart has increased exponentially...
from the day that i first understood what marriage and having kids is,i have always thought of having 2 baby girls instead of boys ,because of the greatness of woman..i just love my mom so much and i wish her to be happy so i always ask god only one thing and that is to give me the strength and power to do all the things whihc make my mom happy...
:)

Football!!!

we love football!!!its the worlds most popular sport!!!i am an indian!!i know our football team is not exactly "brazil" but we still love football!!!cricket ..hmm..ok but football ooh yea baby!!!i once read in a paper and i agree with it too that "we indians love watchin football more than playing it!!"but i also play football(sometimes:p)..used to play it everyday a few days back but gone r the days...now i dont play anythin....
me and my friends we are such great fans of the "english premier league"!!i am a die hard "chelsea" fan(a true blue) ,i have 2 chelsea jerseys(ballack and drogba),i have a chelsea banner hung in my room,i even have a chelsea hand band!!my bro is a diehard "manunited" fan!!!so u can say we r nothin less than enemies when it comes to football!!we have had so many fights on the saturdays and the "super sundays" when epl matches are on ..hehe:)
i have friends who are chelsea fans like me,manunited fans like my bro,liverpool fans,arsenal fans,newcastle fans,milan fans(italian league)...the list goes on!!i still remember the day of the most popular sports event in the world,"the football world cup"..the matches usually started at about 2 am and me and my frnz used to stay awake the whole night watchin the matches and discussing on the phones..our days were spent betting with each other on who is gonna win todays match,n fighting on the previous match:)..i even won 300 bucks from a friend on such bets!!my favourite teams were "argentina,italy and england"...and italy won the cup!!i was so happy!!!though i am an indian!!!hehe :)i miss those days so much!!we had so much to talk about ,so much to watch...waiting eagerly for the next one to start...
our indian never even succeeds to qualify for the world cup!!though it tries its best n i know one day,it will!!i will be the first one to support it!!i even follow our indian football league though not with as much dedication:P..i like "mohun bagan"!!i follow other leagues too!!i like "ac milan" and "barca"(spanish la liga)...its my love for football!!!yea ,i like watchin it but i also like playin it,whenever i get the chance:P

Life......

life....my dear life...my sweet life...my ever phasing life....my difficult life....
life can be so turbulent,so mercurial,so silent,so violent but still i love my life..whatever i do,i do it for "my life"!!!
i take life as a journey, a journey which has many stops in between ,many problems and difficulties,a journey to reach the ultimate destination ,which goes by the name of "Happiness"!!!The day i achieve happiness,my journey will be over!!although,i have not the slightest bit of idea which way i have to go,what path to follow,which stops to take and which to leave,but i carry on my journey...
2 factors which govern our life and how it will treat us,are ,"our fate" and "ourselves" ..according to me,life is a sewer,what u get out of it depends on what u put in it!!!u are the primary deciding factor of the type of life u get,u r the creator and u r the destroyer.u put the righteous ingredients into the sewer,u get happiness out of it...
another deciding factor is "fate"...which is not controlled by us but is pre-written for everyone...if fate means u to lose it,still give it a good fight!!!always keep an eye for fate's warning,for it governs ur next step....
i will carry on my seemingly endless search for happiness making stops wherever necessary,picking up people alongwith me to carry on the journey with me,on the way, and help me reach my destination....